when i was at my house i was able to connect wirelessly and my xbox was also connected wirelessly. but here at my college ive got my xbox hooked up with an ethernet cord and when i tried to transfer a song using my laptop which was on the wireless network, it didnt work. so then i plugged in the ethernet cord on the laptop and everything worked fine. just providing this in case it helps anybody.
Should I just give up then? Tried every suggestion.