You think you have it bad?

I know a girl who had an abusive boyfriend. Said boyfriend was from the Marines, and hired a man to stalk her because she talked to boys (myself included) in a non-flirty matter. When she spoke to us about it, she was beaten for this. Did I mention she was pregnent?

The baby was a miscarriage. So when she finally got back to school, another girl beat her up for aborting the baby.

She is still alive today.

There will always be worse things. You think I didn't once think of suicide?

I lived with an evil, caniving b**** for half of my life. She put me through so much torment. Mind games that would make any man snap. I had to do almost every chore, and when I got done, had to do them again because she wasn't "satisfied" with made up things. She had her little girl break my things in front of me, then tell me to clean it up and throw it away. I asked for more food and I got tied up to a chair and force fed. I was beaten, and even sexually abused. But I live still today.

There will always be worse.

You're a great guy on here, and if you can seriously tell me that we didn't mean anything to you, as a forum, then why are you here? Everybody here cares about you, so dont try saying that. This phase is going to pass, give it time. Life is all about overcoming obstacles, no matter how big or small.

Don't give up on us, for we shall never give up in you.

This thread is actually making me tear up. Please don't ever seriously consider suicide. No matter what you think, suicide is never the answer.

We all got your back, Bulzeeb.

It's easy for us to say, "chin up," "don't stress about it," and "it'll get better," and as corny and ridiculous as it is, that's all we can do. And we'll do it.

We'll do it gladly.

Chin up.
Try not to stress about it.
It will get better.

Ok I'll throw it out there I guess. I've had thoughts like this before myself but I know that I have people that I couldn't live without and people who couldn't live without me.

Whether you have them in real life or only here on the forum the point is that people care. There are people I've met right here on this forum that have made me realize what life is all about. I've heard stories here that make any of my problems look miniscule in comparison. I figure if they can keep going then I sure as hell have no excuse not to.

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Originally Posted by SuperTigerMario

Ok I'll throw it out there I guess. I've had thoughts like this before myself but I know that I have people that I couldn't live without and people who couldn't live without me.

Whether you have them in real life or only here on the forum the point is that people care. There are people I've met right here on this forum that have made me realize what life is all about. I've heard stories here that make any of my problems look miniscule in comparison. I figure if they can keep going then I sure as hell have no excuse not to.

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This is me to a tee. Especially with. LHV and Hogan's posts.

Let's try not to turn this into a pity party. That can have the opposite effect from what you intend.

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Originally Posted by LiveHomeVideo

You think you have it bad?

I know a girl who had an abusive boyfriend. Said boyfriend was from the Marines, and hired a man to stalk her because she talked to boys (myself included) in a non-flirty matter. When she spoke to us about it, she was beaten for this. Did I mention she was pregnent?

The baby was a miscarriage. So when she finally got back to school, another girl beat her up for aborting the baby.

She is still alive today.

There will always be worse things. You think I didn't once think of suicide?

I lived with an evil, caniving b**** for half of my life. She put me through so much torment. Mind games that would make any man snap. I had to do almost every chore, and when I got done, had to do them again because she wasn't "satisfied" with made up things. She had her little girl break my things in front of me, then tell me to clean it up and throw it away. I asked for more food and I got tied up to a chair and force fed. I was beaten, and even sexually abused. But I live still today.

There will always be worse.

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And there goes my faith in humanity. Ouch.

But anyway, suicide isn't worth it man. If you consider it, you gotta think about who it's gonna hurt, because it's not only you gonna be you hurting. 2 years ago, someone from my old school committed suicide of a breakup, and I was totally shaken up by it. I never really knew him well, but it was one hell of a wake up call. But we're all here for you man.

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Originally Posted by SheSaidSheSaid

Let's try not to turn this into a pity party. That can have the opposite effect from what you intend.

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what do you suggest ol smart one

Something you mustn't overlook as well, if you are having thoughts, is to contact someone who can help. There are numbers and hotlines to call in your area, just check the phone book or even just dial your operator. If need be even call 911.

While you might not think they can help, they may be able too. You lose nothing by talking.