Dear Frizz: Discussions of Romance and Heartbreak

[daftuprising]

I've seen a lot of people on here say they are married, or in a serious relationship. But I've seen more people say I haven't had a girlfriend/boyfriend in X amount of months.

I guess this can be the official personal life/relationship help thread or whatever.

But what's up guys/gals? Do you not want a girl/guy? Not know how to approach them? Can't say the right things?

[kiggidykev]

I want to approach Brobot, but he's married

[jeccaneko]

I want to approach Brobot, but he's married

Does Sarah know?

I feel for you guys. I really do. Girls ARE insane. That's why I've never really had female friends. I simply don't get them even though I am a girl. I don't know how I'd manage if I was actually a guy and was interested in girls.

[LinkStrifeLeonhart]

Does Sarah know?

I feel for you guys. I really do. Girls ARE insane. That's why I've never really had female friends. I simply don't get them even though I am a girl. I don't know how I'd manage if I was actually a guy and was interested in girls.

Haha, I wouldn't say that they are insane, just that some are worse off than others. While I've yet to enter a relationship, a great deal of my friends are female. In fact my closest friends are female. It's great fun to hang out with them and they don't suffer from the 'insane girl curse.'

But I will say that you are right since the last gal I like was definitely on the far side of the spectrum of insane. Seriously, how does a person live with so many masks?

[bse523]

Haha, I wouldn't say that they are insane, just that some are worse off than others. While I've yet to enter a relationship, a great deal of my friends are female. In fact my closest friends are female. It's great fun to hang out with them and they don't suffer from the 'insane girl curse.'

But I will say that you are right since the last gal I like was definitely on the far side of the spectrum of insane. Seriously, how does a person live with so many masks?

People live with masks because they cannot accept who they are nor do they want to try and change themselves. Because they are miserable, they feel others should be miserable with them. It's fortunate for you that you have female friends because they can be a great source to bounce ideas or thoughts on for when you do find a girl you like (if they're legit and honest, unlike the one I'm gonna talk about below was).

My latest "friend" basically doesn't want to be friends anymore because she thinks I'm jealous of her bf and that it's my fault that she doesn't say anything nice about him. She tried to tell me "you won't listen about how great he is so I can't tell you anything." So if she never says anything nice, how I can listen to a nice thing? The only thing she'd tell me is "he's an idiot, but he's my idiot" She broke up with him for a few days and was a lot happier without him. But he told her to get rid of me so like a puppy she obeyed.

[LinkStrifeLeonhart]

It's fortunate for you that you have female friends because they can be a great source to bounce ideas or thoughts on for when you do find a girl you like (if they're legit and honest, unlike the one I'm gonna talk about below was).

My latest "friend" basically doesn't want to be friends anymore because she thinks I'm jealous of her bf and that it's my fault that she doesn't say anything nice about him. She tried to tell me "you won't listen about how great he is so I can't tell you anything." So if she never says anything nice, how I can listen to a nice thing? The only thing she'd tell me is "he's an idiot, but he's my idiot" She broke up with him for a few days and was a lot happier without him. But he told her to get rid of me so like a puppy she obeyed.

Trust me, my friends were why I was able to get over the last gal as smoothly as I did (which still wasn't smooth.) Not only that, they were the ones I went to when I first started liking the gal and sought advice from them. Not even they could foresee just how nasty she would be, though.

The real kicker is that currently there is this gal that I should like, but I just don't. Either there is just no chemistry going on or I haven't gotten to know her well enough. I don't focus too hard on it other than the "has traits I like but am not interested in" factor since it would allow me to possibly understand how/why some gals would turn down a guy even though he is what she wants.

[TheMovieManiac]

I admit to crash and burn relationships but that was because she wasn't interested in me or we didn't have anything in common.

I'm looking for that special someone, where ever she may roam, she's out there.........somewhere.

[kiggidykev]

Does Sarah know?

She says my feet are too cold, someone else can take me now

[sillystou]

I want to approach Brobot, but he's married

That's never stopped you before!

[TheClashTheClashTheClash]

Girls confuse the sh*t out of me. Act like they really like me one day and then not texting back the next.


and some other ones are just b*tches. After our first date, she decided to just stop talking to me instead of saying she wasn't interested. If she would've told me, I'd be fine but the fact that she didn't, that makes her one.